Did you know that divorce rates today are the highest ever in America It\s certainly not good news
Joe Flacco Ravens Jersey , but at least that means you\re not the only abandoned husband who wants to learn how to get your wife backFar from it. In fact, the percentage of marriages ending in divorce has been steadily increasing for the past 30 yearsOnly in the last few years are we finally starting to see a plateau (in other words, it\s stopped rising). But do you know what the current % of divorced couples is Just take a guessI dare ya. Get this – Current estimates state that between 40% – 55% of marriages will end in divorce. Now I want you to really think about that for a little bit, let that sink in. Even if you account for people who\ve had multiple failed marriages (second, third and fourth marriages are significantly more likely to end in divorce), clearly we as a society are doing something wrong when it comes to marriage. Divorce rates should NEVER be that high! I Know Divorce Rates Are High; How Do I Get My Wife Back With more broken marriages ending in divorce, obviously there are also many more marriage counselors and divorce attorneys It seems that some people are doing very, very well for themselves thanks to this tragic trend in marital health. Coincidence Maybe not. Especially once you consider that despite this enormous spike in marriage counselors and the marriage counseling industry as a whole
Jimmy Smith Ravens Jersey , when it comes down to brass tacks very few people actually know Jack Diddley about saving a marriage relationship, or rebuilding lost love between two people. In fact, I would wager to say that most people are wasting time pursuing so-called \relationship building\ strategies that are not only pointless, but actively counter productive. Check out these chilling statistics: * Fun Fact #1. Researchers say that within two years of marriage counseling, studies find that 25% of couples are worse off than they were when they started, and after 4 years, up to 38% are divorced. (source) * Fun Fact #2. Recent studies have also shown that only 12% of private practice marriage therapists have elected to take even a single college-level course in marital therapy. * Fun Fact #3. Marriage counselors and psychiatrists have the highest divorce rates of any medical professionPeriod. And you want to trust these people with your marriage Get Your Wife Back By Doing the Opposite of Everyone Around You It sounds almost too sad to be true, but it\s really come to the point where a safe rule of thumb to stop a divorce is to do the exact opposite of what everyone else is doing. Everyone Says Communication is the Key to Re-Igniting Your Marriage As I believe I have already hinted at
Jeromy Miles Ravens Jersey , this extremely common recommendation is actually based off of what would almost seem like solid logic. This recommendation exists because of the assumption that a good, healthy marriage also has good, healthy communication. This is a reasonable assumption, certainly, since most of the healthy and thriving marriages that I know of DO have very open communication between spouses. Sounds great, right Here\s the problem: Just because open communication works well for a couple with a rocksolid foundation of love, trust and happiness doesn\t mean it will work equally well for you to repair a broken relationship with a shattered foundation of apathy, desperation and hopelessness. Communication works differently when your wife has hardened her heart
Jeremy Zuttah Ravens Jersey , and most people don\t realize that. I mean think about it, it\s sort of like saying you should talk to a stranger the same way you would talk to your best friend, or that you should talk to your boss the same way you talk to your office buddiesYou don\t tell dirty or racist or sexist or gross jokes to your boss, even if you do to your closer coworkers. Your boss would, at best, look at you with disgust for the remainder of the day and, at worst, fire you. Why Because it\s apples and oranges; each of those relationships – boss to coworker AND healthy marriage to unhealthy marriage – require a different type of communication. Maybe that wasn\t the best example in the world
Jason Babin Ravens Jersey , but I hope you understand what I\m saying. What you should take away is that good communication alone isn\t going to solve your marriage. Not at this point. You can\t just talk to your wife and change her mind about something so based in emotion. You have to WIN HER HEART, and communication is NOT the key to her heart. Everyone Says that Showing You Care is the Key to Getting Her Back If you have ever been to marriage counseling, then I\d be willing to bet that you have heard this one or something similar a couple times before. This is a favorite of your average marriage counselor because it\s easy, sounds good, and seems logical. If your wife feels loved, it\s only natural that she\ll love you back, right But as we\ve already learned, logic does not fix marriages
Jacoby Jones Ravens Jersey , and this is one more example of a strategy that sounds good but won\t actually work in practice. Here are some other common marriage solutions that don\t solve anything * Telling Her You Love Her won\t fix your marriage * Regular Date Nights won\t get her back * Making Intimacy Time for each other will not make a difference * Leaving Her Cute Little Notes won\t fix your marriage * Acts of Service won\t save your marriage Why won\t any of these things work Why will they actively push your wife further away from you Because right now she views you as weak, smothering and boring, and until she FEELS differently about you (notice the keyword, \FEELS\) she\s not going to be receptive to any romantic gestures Instead she will feel pressured, pushed and manipulated. She will be able to see right through what you\re trying to do, and because she knows your end goal, her mind will throw up that defensive emotional wall that keeps her from wanting you back. Everyone Says Lavishing Her is the Key to Saving Your Marriage.
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