able characteristics. A distinct aspect of romance is a person's emotional arousal with the potential for [censored] and love. People have higher standards for romantic mates than they do for friends. These standards are social status
nike air max 2016 heren , warmth, physical beauty, playfulness and intelligence.The workplace is a place where romance can happen. Workmates can go from strangers, to friends, to experiencing sexual attraction, and to acting on not acting on this attraction. Significant others usually know their mate more than friends do. In romance, pairs are looking for unconditional likeness, love, affection, acceptance, approval, and praise and compliments. In romance, there are three overlapping schemas: self, a party's perception of the other one
nike air max 2016 dames , and the relation between the self and the partner. Romance is partially built on illusions.Women fantasize in general, but men fantasize only when they are strongly committed. For both men and women personality and character matter and for both it is important to find an intelligent, faithful, and kind mate. Men look for attractiveness, or youth and beauty, in women, because it symbolizes reproductive fitness. Women instead look for resourceful men, because, to them, resources or power symbolizes protection for children. Romantic love is made out of a combination of cognitions, emotions and behaviors. To find true love, people nowadays use internet based technology, such as internet dating sites, which can be dangerous
nike air max 2016 kopen , if not used correctly, or it can be very successful.Passionate love is often depicted in epic romantic movies, such as "Gone with the Wind". Passionate love usually begins fast and it is an all-encompassing emotional surge and fixation about the other person. This emotional response can be unrealistic, even if it is felt like true love, but to outsiders it is infatuation. Unrequited love can happen when one person romantically loves another who does not feel love in return.Love can be a pleasant fantasy that people share with other, such as Santa Claus. Lust and commitment are based on biology for reproductive purposes. Bonding has been successful for the success of the species. Usually men were out hunting for food for the family and the woman took care of the babies. DNA takes millenniums to change, so people today may be genetically predisposed to continue this evolutionary pattern. Most young adults are and want to be monogamous. Culture can affect lust and commitment with religion, laws, songs and stories. For example, in Saudi Arabia, public affection is prohibited. In some other countries, polygamy is legal.Companionate love is based on mutual interests, friendship, attraction
nike air huarache nederland , respect and concern for the other partner's wellness. Intimacy, decision/commitment and passion are the components of consummate love can be based on, or any combination of them. As a result of the sexual revolution of the 60s, greater tolerance and permissiveness towards sexual behavior and attitudes is allowed today. Young Americans are in favor of [censored] marriages, whereas older Americans are against it.Commitment in a relation is important given that 50% of marriages end up in divorces. Commitment of fear of a breakup is not as healthy and effective as the positive commitment based ob rewards of a long-lasting relation. Spouses are similar in emotional, psychological, physical, cognitive and social traits. Similar people marry and similarities stay the same as years go by. Assumed similarity is the belief some people have to be similar to their partner. Both assumed and actual similarity increase marital satisfaction. Dating couples have higher assumed similarity than married couples. Narcissism, insecure attachment styles, anxiety, pessimism, neuroticism do cause marital problems. The degree of similarities in overall attitudes and preferences predicts the success of a marriage and compatibility.Usually passionate love decreases over time. Companionate love and overall sharing is important for a lasting marriage. Several marital problems are born from the perceived unfairness of how house c[censored] s are divided and over finances. Couples with secure attachment styles deal effectively with these demands. One common problem with relations is that, based on the initial perceived illusion, eventually couples become aware of their partner's negative qualities
nike air huarache kopen , as well. Relation success is the result of a cost and benefit analysis, like in economy. Within the costs, there is communal behavior, which is the cost to one spouse but a benefit to the partner and to the relation overall. Marital success depends on the number of costs and benefits in the marriage.The truth about marriageAnother problem in marriages is jealousy. Both men and women are threatened by infidelity. Unhappy partners usually engage in infidelity, which leads to divorce. Disagreements and conflicts are inevitable in marriages so it is important to know how to handle them effectively. Negative relation behaviors are changing the subject in conversation, blaming, rejecting, criticizing, and being irresponsible and hostile. Unhappy men in relation are avoidant. Positive relation behaviors are communicating commitment, showing affection, providing companionship and support, maintaining a positive attitude, and showing respect. One easy tool to avoid relation conflicts is to pause before communicating and think of the long-term effects of a communicat.
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